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Episode 52: 2020 Wrapped -Dating Year In Review

B+L Wrap up a terrible year with an amazing episode. Great for OG listeners and brand spanking new listeners alike, we take a retrospective look at our dating lives over the last year and quantify them into numbers with little to no meaning.

0:59 Number of Guys Fucked
4:13 Number of Guys Ghosted
5:55 Number of Break-Ups
9:22 Number of Second Dates
16:48 Number of Throwback Hits
49:33 On Repeat: Guy Most Talked to this Year
51:01 Number of Hinge Matches
52:00 Number of Thirst Traps Posted on Instagram
52:30 Best Lay of 2020
54:35 Worst Date of 2020

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This episode was recorded in early December, any COVID-related talks are reflective of the time of that recording. Please check https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/index.html for the most up to date news regarding your State or Country.

Episode 46: Grass Chasing with Sarah Merrill

On this week’s episode, B is flying solo and interviewing special guest Sarah Merrill (@sarahamerrill_) from the Big Kid Problems Podcast. They talk about Sarah’s brand spanking new fiancé (00:04:48), moving to New York at 18 (00:14:20), #LAproblems (00:17:42), the evolution of popular meme page on Instagram Big Kid Problems (00:22:20) and what the hell are all these destination weddings and why we’re both having one (00:27:25). A chat of make-ups and break-ups and everything in between.

Sarah Merrill Instagram: @sarahamerrill_

Big Kid Problems Instagram: @bigkidproblems

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Episode 45: The Great British Blaise

An array of topics are covered this week when B+L are joined with special guest Blaise-B’s former neighbor in London (yes British accent included). They discuss what you learn from your first serious relationship (00:03:22), Wetherspoons date etiquette (00:17:48), internal payments systems when you’re in a Long Term Relationship (00:22:00), dating as someone whose mixed race, fetishization, the most recent season Love Island’s having the first person of color to win (and all the other racial issues with that show) (00:26:57), someone who went on three holidays with their boyfriend, what Blaise has learnt about traveling with a bae (00:39:24) and navigating your mental health issues in a relationship (00:42:53)

Blaise’s Twitter: @BlaiseInBeauty

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Episode 41: Baecation

We’re in peak summer time which means lots of opportunity to take a trip with your bae. This week we break down L’s recent trip with R to Italy and answer questions like when’s the best time to take your first Baecation, trial’ing a big trip with a weekender before, and what to do when you get annoyed with your bae. We also answer a listener a email about what to do when you’ve been dating someone for a few years in your twenties but start to lose interest.

Episode 27: When Should I Tell Them I Go To Therapy? Collected Layers x NYGF

This week B+L are joined by John, 29 and Mike, 28 from Collected Layer Podcast (@jckfoundation). In addition to finding the last two good single guys in New York, they break down how and when you should bring up therapy/mental illness in dating, meeting people in real life tips, and the guys share their most interesting dating stories and preferences for the modern 20-something New York male.