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Episode 47: Love and Other Drugs, The Season Three Finale

Episode 47: Love and Other Drugs, The Season Three Finale

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Dating, Couples, Drugs, Gay Dating, Guests, Long Term Relationships, Love

WARNING: This episode contains explicit language, binge drinking, and illegal drugs depending on your state laws.

This episode was made for the fans. B+L close out Season 3 by having a long whiskey filled chat with each other. Topics include: NYC apartments and roommates of the past, B+L life updates (including L moving in with her long-term bae and B’s update on her long-distance bae), special guest this week is B’s new roommate P who weighs in on the dating scene in DC and how it compares to NYC and much more. Reminisce with us, drink with us (take drugs with us). Cheers to three wonderful seasons.

Episode 46: Grass Chasing with Sarah Merrill

Episode 46: Grass Chasing with Sarah Merrill

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Breakups, Casual Sex, Communication, Couples, First Dates, Long Term Relationships, Love, Married, Mental Health, , Weddings, Guests

On this week’s episode, B is flying solo and interviewing special guest Sarah Merrill (@sarahamerrill_) from the Big Kid Problems Podcast. They talk about Sarah’s brand spanking new fiancé (00:04:48), moving to New York at 18 (00:14:20), #LAproblems (00:17:42), the evolution of popular meme page on Instagram Big Kid Problems (00:22:20) and what the hell are all these destination weddings and why we’re both having one (00:27:25). A chat of make-ups and break-ups and everything in between.

Sarah Merrill Instagram: @sarahamerrill_

Big Kid Problems Instagram: @bigkidproblems

Big Kid Problems Podcast: itunes, Spotify, Google Play

Instagram (Slide In the DMs): @notyourgirlfriendspodcast

Twitter: @NotUrGFPodcast

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/notyourgirlfriendspodcast

Website: https://www.notyourgirlfriendspodcast.com

Submissions: notyourgirlfriendspodcast@gmail.com

Episode 45: The Great British Blaise

Episode 45: The Great British Blaise

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Breakups, Casual Sex, Communication, Couples, Dating, Dating Apps, First Dates, Guests, Long Term Relationships, Love, Mental Health

An array of topics are covered this week when B+L are joined with special guest Blaise-B’s former neighbor in London (yes British accent included). They discuss what you learn from your first serious relationship (00:03:22), Wetherspoons date etiquette (00:17:48), internal payments systems when you’re in a Long Term Relationship (00:22:00), dating as someone whose mixed race, fetishization, the most recent season Love Island’s having the first person of color to win (and all the other racial issues with that show) (00:26:57), someone who went on three holidays with their boyfriend, what Blaise has learnt about traveling with a bae (00:39:24) and navigating your mental health issues in a relationship (00:42:53)

Blaise’s Twitter: @BlaiseInBeauty

Instagram (Slide In the DMs): @notyourgirlfriendspodcast

Twitter: @NotUrGFPodcast

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/notyourgirlfriendspodcast

Website: https://www.notyourgirlfriendspodcast.com

Submissions: notyourgirlfriendspodcast@gmail.com

Episode 42: Of Wedding Dates and Instathots with Lindsey from We Met At Acme

Episode 42: Of Wedding Dates and Instathots with Lindsey from We Met At Acme

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Communication, Couples, Dating, Dating Apps, Long Term Relationships, Love, Married, , Weddings, Guests

Host of the millennial dating podcast We Met At Acme, Lindsey Metselaar, joins B+L to talk about how to navigate wedding season, including when to give a plus one, going to wedding as a plus one with your S/O, and what happens when your boyfriend doesn’t want to come as your plus one. We also dive into if it’s ever okay for your boyfriend to follow instagram models, how many is too many, and if there is a situation where you should really bring it up. 

Lindsey Metselaar Instagram: @lindzmetz

We Met at Acme Instagram: @wemetatacme

Instagram: @notyourgirlfriendspodcast

Twitter: @NotUrGFPodcast

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/notyourgirlfriendspodcast

Website: https://www.notyourgirlfriendspodcast.com

Submissions: notyourgirlfriendspodcast@gmail.com

Episode 38: Dating with Tom and Tucker of The Undesirables

Episode 38: Dating with Tom and Tucker of The Undesirables

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Casual Sex, Dating, Dating Apps, Drinking, Drugs, Female Orgasm, First Dates, Fuck Boys, Guests, IRL, Juuls, Long Term Relationships, Love, Rejection,

In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.

Episode 30: Dating Profile Tips from Bounce Co-Founders

Episode 30: Dating Profile Tips from Bounce Co-Founders

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Breakups, Casual Sex, Communication, Dating, Dating Apps, Drinking, First Dates, Fuck Boys, Female Orgasm, Guests, IRL, Love

B+L sit down with co-founders of new dating app in NYC called Bounce. They talk worse dates, rate B’s Bounce profile , and going on date with someone who doesn’t drink. We find out if all guys are really lying about their height, are selfies fair game for your profile and how important someone’s voice plays into their attractiveness.

Episode 28: Are Love Potions Roofies? Potterless x NYGF with Mike Schubert

Episode 28: Are Love Potions Roofies? Potterless x NYGF with Mike Schubert

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Casual Sex, Couples, Dating, Female Orgasm, Guests, Long Term Relationships, Love

On this week’s episode B+L go full Harry Potter with Mike Schubert (@Schubes17) from the Potterless Podcast, where Mike as a 20-something millennial reads Harry Potter for the first time. We discuss our favorite Harry Potter pairings (and least favorite), wizard condoms, the ethics of love potions, and if Snape or Lupin more of a hipster. Potterless Podcast is available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, follow Mike’s journey on Potterless on Twitter (@PotterlessPod) and Instagram (PotterlessPodcast).

Episode 27: When Should I Tell Them I Go To Therapy? Collected Layers x NYGF

Episode 27: When Should I Tell Them I Go To Therapy? Collected Layers x NYGF

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Mental Health, Love, Guests, Fuck Boys, First Dates, Dating Apps, Dating, Casual Sex, Breakups, Sex Trends, Toxic

This week B+L are joined by John, 29 and Mike, 28 from Collected Layer Podcast (@jckfoundation). In addition to finding the last two good single guys in New York, they break down how and when you should bring up therapy/mental illness in dating, meeting people in real life tips, and the guys share their most interesting dating stories and preferences for the modern 20-something New York male.

Episode 24: How to Sex Educate Yourself - Gigi Engle x NYGF

Episode 24: How to Sex Educate Yourself - Gigi Engle x NYGF

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Casual Sex, Dating, Dating Apps, Female Orgasm, Feminism, First Dates, Guests, Love, Rejection, Toys, Sex Trends

On this week’s episode B+L are joined by a very special guest-sex educator and journalist, Gigi Engle (@gigiengle on Twitter and Instagram). B+L talk sex education, female pleasure, toys, current sex trends (butt play!?), porn, and their mutual love of European men. B+L also answer a listener question and weigh in on how they should move forward.

Episode 22: Saturday is for the Boys

Episode 22: Saturday is for the Boys

notyourgirlfriends podcast
Casual Sex, Communication, Couples, Dating, Dating Apps, Fuck Boys, First Dates, Guests, Long Term Relationships, Love

This week B+L host two new guests (and current listeners!) on the podcast. New York based R— 24 and single— and J— 25 and in a committed relationship— come on to the pod and answer all of our burning questions about what the hell is going on in the straight male mind. We chat about cheating, what it means to sleep with someone on a first date, splitting the bill and following ex’s on social media… with arguably too much laughter in between.