B+L are well rested and back for a FRESH Season 3 Premiere-this episode doesn't disappoint. B shares why fucking a 29 year-old isn’t a guarantee at good sex.
All in Dating
Episode 34: Season 2 Finale & Euro Trip Sequel
B+L are back together to wrap up the season. We talk L’s next relationships stage and give an update. B is fresh off the boat from her Europe trips gives us the rundown on what happened (and who happened). The episode is filled with dicks that are too big, hot internet date hookups and European flings of the past.
Episode 33: Same Hoe in Different Area Codes
As part of our travel series, this week B sits down with special British guest ‘Lily’ who recently moved her life up and moved to Copenhagen.
Episode 32: So Your Long Term Partner Left
Our first recurring guest, Anonymous S from Episode 7: So You Think Your Junk Is Brilliant is back to give us a life update. We last left her in a steady long term relationship until recently when her long term partner ended things. We talk about how to process a breakup when you don’t get closure, entering the dating world at 27, and building trust with a next person you date.
Episode 31: Valentine's Day Dating
B+L are separated by an ocean but that doesn’t stop them from breaking down Valentine’s Day do and don’ts for those in a serious relationship to those in maybe want to get more serious. They also answer two listener questions and give some sage advice on dating older and what happens when you have emotional compatibility without sexual compatibility.
Episode 30: Dating Profile Tips from Bounce Co-Founders
B+L sit down with co-founders of new dating app in NYC called Bounce. They talk worse dates, rate B’s Bounce profile , and going on date with someone who doesn’t drink. We find out if all guys are really lying about their height, are selfies fair game for your profile and how important someone’s voice plays into their attractiveness.
Episode 29: When and How To DTR a New Relationship
Are you recently seeing someone and found yourself going on less first dates and more second, third and fourth dates? In this episode L discusses her latest bae and her and B give some advice on when to have the exclusive conversation, when to have the boyfriend/girlfriend conversation and why a lot of online dating romances end after the third/fourth date mark. We discuss a recent reddit thread on the subject and discuss what made our last online dating romances end and of course how to explore new bedroom stuff when you start sleeping exclusively with one person.
Episode 28: Are Love Potions Roofies? Potterless x NYGF with Mike Schubert
On this week’s episode B+L go full Harry Potter with Mike Schubert (@Schubes17) from the Potterless Podcast, where Mike as a 20-something millennial reads Harry Potter for the first time. We discuss our favorite Harry Potter pairings (and least favorite), wizard condoms, the ethics of love potions, and if Snape or Lupin more of a hipster. Potterless Podcast is available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, follow Mike’s journey on Potterless on Twitter (@PotterlessPod) and Instagram (PotterlessPodcast).
Episode 27: When Should I Tell Them I Go To Therapy? Collected Layers x NYGF
This week B+L are joined by John, 29 and Mike, 28 from Collected Layer Podcast (@jckfoundation). In addition to finding the last two good single guys in New York, they break down how and when you should bring up therapy/mental illness in dating, meeting people in real life tips, and the guys share their most interesting dating stories and preferences for the modern 20-something New York male.
Episode 26: In Which B’s Date Walks Out and L Finds a Good Guy
B shares her first date of 2019 experience where a guy walks out mid-date, and L weighs in on what could have been avoided to make sure our listeners’ dates don’t end the same way. L shares her current positive dating experience. Oh, and there’s a car sex story.
Episode 25: The Fuck Boy Christmas Special
This week we break down the fuck boy-are they born or created? How to spot if the guy you’re dating is a fuck boy (or if you yourself have fuck boy tendencies), and how to treat a fuck boy if you find one in your life. B+L talk about posting on reddit, Big Mouth, and why and how people find themselves in relationships in this Christmas Special!
Episode 24: How to Sex Educate Yourself - Gigi Engle x NYGF
On this week’s episode B+L are joined by a very special guest-sex educator and journalist, Gigi Engle (@gigiengle on Twitter and Instagram). B+L talk sex education, female pleasure, toys, current sex trends (butt play!?), porn, and their mutual love of European men. B+L also answer a listener question and weigh in on how they should move forward.
Episode 23: On Throwing Away Cuffing Season
This week B + L cover various topics including why they’re forgoing cuffing season, a fun micro-penis story, and talk their thoughts on The Swiped Documentary, about online dating in the modern world.
Episode 22: Saturday is for the Boys
This week B+L host two new guests (and current listeners!) on the podcast. New York based R— 24 and single— and J— 25 and in a committed relationship— come on to the pod and answer all of our burning questions about what the hell is going on in the straight male mind. We chat about cheating, what it means to sleep with someone on a first date, splitting the bill and following ex’s on social media… with arguably too much laughter in between.
Episode 21: One Taught Us Love, One Taught Us Patience, One Taught Us Pain
On this episode B+L go through the ghosts of their past, inspired by Ariana’s new song ‘Thank U Next’. They also revisit cuffing season and give a update on their progress (or lack there of)
Episode 20: Current Qualms of the Female New York Millennial- Falling in Luck x NYGF
Madison and Julianna fellow podcasters of the dating podcast Falling in Luck visit B+L and they discuss their current dating issues with each other, New York happy hours, and some cuffing season (horror) updates
Episode 19: A Majority of Issues While Dating as a Minority
Prompted by a recent ‘Dear Abby’ write-in on whether an Indian couple should give their child an American name, B+L discuss their own ethnicity and their experiences while dating as minorities. They share some cringe-y dating stories and pro-tips to keep mind while dating someone who is a minority.
Episode 18: 'Tis the Cuffing Season
B+L kick off Season Two and take on cuffing season head-on. They break down what is cuffing season, the best way to find yourself a bae that will stick around in these cold winter months, and offer up some first date advice during these trying times.
Episode 17: Season One Wrapped: Realizing Stuff, New Beginnings
B+L wrap up the Season One, sharing their favorite episodes from the season and how their 6 month podcast journey has them -realizing stuff- and ponder what’s in store for their dating lives to come.
Episode 16: The Unstated Hierarchy of Social Media Following
B+L Breakdown when to follow someone what social media, weighing pros/cons, when social media is TMI, and most importantly-when to request that insta-follow.