All in Fuck Boys

Episode 52: 2020 Wrapped -Dating Year In Review

B+L Wrap up a terrible year with an amazing episode. Great for OG listeners and brand spanking new listeners alike, we take a retrospective look at our dating lives over the last year and quantify them into numbers with little to no meaning.

0:59 Number of Guys Fucked
4:13 Number of Guys Ghosted
5:55 Number of Break-Ups
9:22 Number of Second Dates
16:48 Number of Throwback Hits
49:33 On Repeat: Guy Most Talked to this Year
51:01 Number of Hinge Matches
52:00 Number of Thirst Traps Posted on Instagram
52:30 Best Lay of 2020
54:35 Worst Date of 2020

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This episode was recorded in early December, any COVID-related talks are reflective of the time of that recording. Please check https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/index.html for the most up to date news regarding your State or Country.

Episode 49: NYC Phase 4 Dating

This week Not Your Girlfriend’s Podcast:

00:02:00 Phase 4 COVID-19 Dating in NYC
00:25:32 Find Yourself a Palette Cleaner Sex Partner!
00:30:00 How to Get a Guy to Leave Your Apartment!
00:31:55 Repeat Offense (AKA Guys You Fuck More Than Once!)
00:32:01 Dumb Bitch Moments (Plenty!!!!!)
00:52:50 Creative Men vs No One!
00:40:46 How-To Correctly Ghost (No Breadcrumbing!)
00:42:00 The Respectable Side-Bitch Slot!

And more!

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Episode 38: Dating with Tom and Tucker of The Undesirables

In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.

Episode 34: Season 2 Finale & Euro Trip Sequel

B+L are back together to wrap up the season. We talk L’s next relationships stage and give an update. B is fresh off the boat from her Europe trips gives us the rundown on what happened (and who happened). The episode is filled with dicks that are too big, hot internet date hookups and European flings of the past.

Episode 31: Valentine's Day Dating

B+L are separated by an ocean but that doesn’t stop them from breaking down Valentine’s Day do and don’ts for those in a serious relationship to those in maybe want to get more serious. They also answer two listener questions and give some sage advice on dating older and what happens when you have emotional compatibility without sexual compatibility.

Episode 30: Dating Profile Tips from Bounce Co-Founders

B+L sit down with co-founders of new dating app in NYC called Bounce. They talk worse dates, rate B’s Bounce profile , and going on date with someone who doesn’t drink. We find out if all guys are really lying about their height, are selfies fair game for your profile and how important someone’s voice plays into their attractiveness.

Episode 29: When and How To DTR a New Relationship

Are you recently seeing someone and found yourself going on less first dates and more second, third and fourth dates? In this episode L discusses her latest bae and her and B give some advice on when to have the exclusive conversation, when to have the boyfriend/girlfriend conversation and why a lot of online dating romances end after the third/fourth date mark. We discuss a recent reddit thread on the subject and discuss what made our last online dating romances end and of course how to explore new bedroom stuff when you start sleeping exclusively with one person.

Episode 27: When Should I Tell Them I Go To Therapy? Collected Layers x NYGF

This week B+L are joined by John, 29 and Mike, 28 from Collected Layer Podcast (@jckfoundation). In addition to finding the last two good single guys in New York, they break down how and when you should bring up therapy/mental illness in dating, meeting people in real life tips, and the guys share their most interesting dating stories and preferences for the modern 20-something New York male.

Episode 25: The Fuck Boy Christmas Special

This week we break down the fuck boy-are they born or created? How to spot if the guy you’re dating is a fuck boy (or if you yourself have fuck boy tendencies), and how to treat a fuck boy if you find one in your life. B+L talk about posting on reddit, Big Mouth, and why and how people find themselves in relationships in this Christmas Special!

Episode 22: Saturday is for the Boys

This week B+L host two new guests (and current listeners!) on the podcast. New York based R— 24 and single— and J— 25 and in a committed relationship— come on to the pod and answer all of our burning questions about what the hell is going on in the straight male mind. We chat about cheating, what it means to sleep with someone on a first date, splitting the bill and following ex’s on social media… with arguably too much laughter in between.

Episode 19: A Majority of Issues While Dating as a Minority

Prompted by a recent ‘Dear Abby’ write-in on whether an Indian couple should give their child an American name, B+L discuss their own ethnicity and their experiences while dating as minorities. They share some cringe-y dating stories and pro-tips to keep mind while dating someone who is a minority.

Episode 13: So You've Been Rejected

We've all been there, and no matter if you've been rejected to your face or via snapchat. In this week's episode B+L enter a lively discourse about soft rejection vs hard rejection, share their best of the worse rejection stories, and when you get rejected next (because it's going to happen) how to get the fuck over in as minimal time as possible so you're rearing and ready for your next heartbreak.

Episode 10: Fuck Girls Anonymous

B+L are reunited and back in New York and attempt to tie up lose ends. Talking about the current dating issues after you've passed the initial first date or two such as, Instagram: to follow or not follow? They break down the seriousness of a DM, the instagram algorithm (there's a rhyme and reason to your top viewers), and when to throw the grenade on dating a guy who may not be that into you.